Tuesday, January 26, 2010

She Doesn't Turn You On Anymore


"She doesn't turn you on anymore"
Long-term relationships have the annoying habit of making people lazy. No longer concerned with staying fit and attractive, a committed woman might lose the allure she once had. Her man may simply not find her beautiful anymore, and making love to her is not as stirring as it once was. This is why most mistresses are gorgeous, young women. www.askmen.com ==> Thoughts on this story?

43 comments:

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Taj aka TigerSmilez said...

women feel the exact same way. well atleast i do.

x_KasieBabii said...

yoo this is why im not gettin married lol

Retro_Kidd said...

Were you serious about this blog lolz

Bombchell said...

*eye roll* break up if ur no longer into it, no need to drag it on and cheat

tyravee said...

What if it's the other way around ? The girl is trying to spice up the relationship, but her man isn't responding ?

aliciawow said...

love shudnt simply b in they looks . not sayin theyre not important if yhu fell in luv w. them that luv shud go beyond waht they later come tew look lyk anything can happen wen iht comes tew looks can't base everything on em .

sexy girl said...

LOL!!!!!!!!! I have to agree with you. Right now i'm single with no children and i'm loving it. That's why i'm going 2 Vegas this spring to experience. I agree wit u Shad. Check me out on twitter @iluvclitsbabe

mizz.minard18 said...

H3Y BABE LOOKIN SEX-C FO MEH LOVE IT AWLL HIT ME UP WHN U CAN LOVE YOU IM OUT

Cha_boo01 said...

I feel like women and men should try to stay looking good for themselves. yes physical attraction is the 1st thing most ppl see but thats not going to keep a mate on its on. my question is are u only attracted to her physical bc if thats the case It will NEVER work. ps i do believe ppl should maintain their apperances bc were if u want to believe it or not that is and important (but not only) factor in a relationship!!!!

Carm3lqTe said...

I agree with bombshell. if the relationship is not what is use to be or what you long for. Than simply end it, so that you not hurt your partner. Just Plane N simple.


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choklate247 said...

Enough said ladies if you wanna keep your man step your game up and keep it sexy.

Lady_red said...

I agree with this statement i dont feel the same way i use to when me and my bpyfriend first started dating. Everything is starting to get old to me now and we been together for almost three yrs.

princesstaranay said...

I think that you just got to spice it up a lil bit. Try sumthin new in bed. if he really loves her he wldnt care if her body change or not.

gottasayit said...

if you think this way "you" are not ready for a relationship. just wait until you become selfless, mature and learn to apply unconditional love. some have to wait until 30 y/o to mature, others, well...

Trinigrl said...

he never said anything about love though.......simply people grow out each other or feel that a long term relationship don't require work but it does. just stepping out of ur element and doing something different can allow you to learn something new about your significant other that turns you all the way on and maybe even carry you back to that place.
if it is love however, all i got to say is what i've been saying, you never stop loving someone you learn to live without them...and that's real!

Cha_boo01 said...

*wheather

joshconner11 said...

if u are in luv, u gotta b able to work it out with yr love and spice it up. u rite, people do tend to get lazy in the relationship, but it depends on both ends if they want to make it work. The real question would b, "Would he/she b worth it to make it work? (Damn, i feel like Montel Williams!!! lol

choklate247 said...

lol im with josh on that 1

Cha_boo01 said...

yeah u have to get creativity and start doing things u never done b4. but if this thing u got going on isnt a relationship just move on. i promise physical attraction shouldnt be the main focus.....U should just date and have friends until you r ready to commiment bc if u care about some1 then there will always be sumthing that sparks ur interest about that person.

Prov31_1982 said...

Long-term relationships do indeed tend to make people lazy. The man and woman become complacent.It's up to that man and woman involved to keep doing whatever it was that ignited and maintained the relationship in the beginning. And sometimes it takes doing new and spontaneous things. Don't get me wrong don't lose sight of yourself and who you are in keeping your relationship on fire but ladies and men keep yourselves up. To add, that's no excuse for either party to cheat. If there is something wrong in the relationship take responsibility to fix if...that's if you want to. That's why it is so much easier for someone outside the relationship to look so much more alluring because your mind is everywhere but on keeping your relationship.

Country said...

Stop wit that spam shit yo damn go on another blog. But any way yea I feel this. you can't let yourself go all the way I mean keep your self up half not to the point where it is a 100% turn off.

Bee Michelle said...

I've been the "mistress" & I've been that person in the relationship whose lost interest.. After a while you do seem to get tired and need some more excitement in the sexual realm of the relationship. You can't be satisfied doing the same thing, experiencing the same thing, or just looking at someone who just doesn't turn you on anymore.

It's not only men who do it- Many women feel the same way. They guy doesn't work out anymore; his feet smell; he seems indifferent about the sex..

I can understand why someone would choose to have a mistress- I've played that role before. I was with a guy who had been with his girlfriend for over 3yrs & he just wasn't into it anymore. Our relationship became more than just friends & sex just kind of came naturally. I didn't necessarily do things that she wouldn't do but He would tell me all the time about how he just wasn't feeling her anymore-- he still loved her but he was bored.

In order to keep a relationship healthy, you must keep yourself up and have a little excitement. If not, he will find his excitement elsewhere.

I'm not saying that being the other woman is wise- it's not. Everyone ends up heartbroken in the end. I'm just saying if you don't keep him satisfied there are MANY younger gals ready to take your spot (same applies to men..)

MJOrtizz said...

Talking about 3 years relationship i stay fit and attractive da whole time BUT he still fuck it up so oh well everybody has different opinions...

KidKay.*__* $$$. said...

you look so cute with lil bit hair! :)

KidKay.*__* $$$. said...

we fell the same too hunni!

Y.B.F ENT said...

Men let themselves go 2. Why do the ladies have 2 work so hard to keep their man from messin wit other women? I think u should do a post on why women cheat b/c of the mistakes men make

Caroline Fine said...

I COMPLETELY understand and agree. I don't want to be with a man that isn't attracted to me anymore or even if I am not feeling him anymore. I am getting older and it seems to me that I would prefer a young hot little tender!!!!!!! I mean someone around 19 or 20 that is sexy as hell!! I don't know maybe it's me or the fact that I am not attracted to what relationship I have been in! I am so ready for something new- that I have to tell myself not to even think about it! My last relationship was for 6 years. I am ready to explore, but also very nervous about new experiences! What do you think???

Brittani said...

I do not entirely agree. First of all, when dating, no one should get comfortable. Dating is all about putting on a show, whether it's for some months or a year or two. A relationship always needs some spicing up, up not all the time, but it shouldnt always be for the woman to spice it up. The man has the exact same responsibility. But to say that people get bored and thats why they cheat is wrong. A know the finest girls who get cheated on all the time. It's just that men cheat. That's it. Men cheat-- bottom line. No one should make excuses for it. However, sometimes there should be days when the woman doesn't have to dress in heels or the dude doesn't have to dress all debonair. If you do all that stuff everyday, that is when it gets boring. Relationships are all about spontaneity, even in a marriage. If you are just gonna cheat, that mean you havent communicated with that person and tell them what you want out of the relationship. And if you truly love that person, then you wouldn't even cheat on them because your lusting for some sex romp.

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Black Diamond said...

What couples and expecially married people fail to keep doing is keeping things fresh,new,spontaneous and hypnotic in the relationship.

Treat eachother like your still dating.Never half step and this goes for women and men. Lady's stay looking good for your man.Keep your hair did on the regular, pedicures, menicures,sexy clothes, keep your hygene up, Stay in shape, wear nice smelling fragrances, and perfumes.Dont be afraid to try new things in the bed room (as long as it's between you two, no third parties,thats a relationship breaker)cause all way's know.. what you want do another women will. Trust she will..lol..

Women make your man feel like he is the King of your castle and men make your women feel like the Queen to your thrown.Stay consistent, what ever you did to get her/him continue to do it to keep her/him.

Fellas you know we love alot of attention, to be spoiled and whine and dined some times. To feel desired,beautiful,and loved in your eye's.

It's not alway's about looks you have to also have separate goals dreams plans and aspirations. And be supportive of each other. Communication,compramizing,Loyalty,Honesty Respect,Trust and Love is the Foundation and Back Bone to any relationship with out any of these a relationship will not survive.

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ke_kata_koeia said...

Break-up with that person instead sneaking around doing-up girls .. do you not reconisder about your girl/boyfriend feelings when your having sex with another person ??? if you did really love her/him just be upstraight and tell that person what's happening otherwise you'll both be dragged down in depression and regret. Leading on your g/b thinking that everything is fine and later hear's that there g/b had been sleeping with another person OMG :o you should know how that feels !! If it's not going to workout the only solution is too break-up ..

(why do people brag about there down-falls in realtionship when they should be discussing it with there partner i would understand if he/her was a raving lunatic and could commit sucicde or harm her/himself but she/he should know the situation better than to overflow it with anger and blaming it on the partner because the sex wasn't good enough and all that shit ! (The world is a messed up place smh)

hmm i like blackdiamonds comment.

mimose said...

Lol that goes both ways... but why is there mistresses? Like they say honesty is the best policy. Most likely you watched Martin Lawrence 'run tel dat'. Also why is the first thought is to cheat instead of letting your partner know of the situation at hand. A mistress is just another word for hoe because if it was all that she would have never been a mistress but your main.

Jokoya said...

I agree. They have a point. But I guarentee that whom ever iI marry or am dating for a long period of time. Ima keep lookin better and better. I'm not letting myself go for nothiin or noone. To keep ur guy u have to stay the same girl he fell in love with and vice versa. I intend to keep my boyfriend or husband happy till the end. I want him to feel like he has the best by dating and chosing me. I want him to feel honored to be with me. Not why that hell am I with this girl. And not just looks but I know how to communicate properly, I'm intelligent and I want to be successful and prosperous. And I want my husband or boyfriend to be the same adding to being attractive.

Alex said...

To everyone saying to just 'break up' with the person, the point of the blog is saying that generally, no matter who you're with, you're going to get bored of the person. So breaking up with one person isn't going to solve anything, you're going to get bored of the next girl anyway. So should we stay away from relationships or still get involved with them?

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Mônica Pinheiro said...

As far as I can see, in long term relationships, including marriages, it is much more commom to happen the contrary: men get lazy and women keep taking care of themselves once they are usually more vanity(I'm sorry, sometimes my english fail looking for the right words). But, at this point, you are so involved with the person that it is possible to love other things besides the fisical apperance.I agree that both men and women should keep taking care of their self images.It demands iniciative.But many relationships are likely to go this way, unless we keep breaking up before getting bored...which is not very romantic, nor mature.

tezza said...

lol trust me if u went out wiv 1 of ur fans (not the OBSSESED ones)she would try her hardes to make u into her THE WHOLE TIME.

Butterflies and Diamonds said...

This is true and that is why both parties have to work at keeping things live and fun. Its okay to get lazy once in a while, but sometimes you gotta step it up and hold on to each other. Explore each other, you'll be amazed at what you find!

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